It usually takes a lot to get me angry. Cut in front of me in traffic? I’ll just smile and nod. But when people are just outright rude and mean, that’s a hot button issue for me.
Recently it seems, there have been many celebrities/sports stars who have disclosed that they have a mental health issue. The most recent disclosure has been from Brandon Marshall, in which he shares that he has Borderline Personality Disorder.
Now, anyone who has mental health issues (I *hate* using the term “mental disorder”) can tell you that it is quite painful to live with it, and even more painful to disclose it to people. You never know how people will look at you after you tell them what is going on with your brain. You are afraid of how people’s judgement will color your relationship with them.
I clicked on the article about Brandon today, and was glad that he was brave to announce what he is enduring. Then, I scrolled down to the comments and that’s when my blood started to boil. People were making nasty, rude, and ignorant comments such as:
“I call it Spoiled Black Thug Trying To Save Face Disorder”
“Yeah Im an @#$% too, Brandon.”
“another over paid whiner”
“I see “acting black” now has a new name…”
There are some thoughtful comments in there, but they are few and far between.
Why the anger, you ask? Because it’s in these ignorant comments that people in the mental health will never get support, understanding, and help.
The next time you hear someone disclosing their mental health issues, take a step back and think this: It could be you.